Sunday, March 1, 2009

The Good Ol' Days - Are we really Better Off Today?

I was raised in a rural setting in New Brunswick, where, as kids, we were accustomed to no electricity, dirt roads, horse and wagons/buggies, hand-cutting the hay with a scythe, raking with a hand-rake, and gathering in the hay with a horse pulling a hay-wagon,while someone tossed the hay on-board with a pitch-fork.

We had a well near the house from which we drew our drinking water, and we had an out-house. Rainwater was gathered in a wooden barrel and was used for washing our clothes. Our source of heat and cooking was a wood stove. We had a battery-powered radio, which was turned on in the early evening after the chores were done, (and everybody had chores), to which we listened intently as stories were narrated, (our version of today's movies and TV).

The door was never locked and frequently someone dropped in, particularly on Saturday evenings, often without knocking. It was taboo to do any work on Sundays, (other than milk and feed the cows and livestock), and everyone dressed as smartly as they could to attend Sunday worship. Afterwards, family gathered at grandma's and grandpa's house for a fun-filled get-together. Playing horse-shoes and story-telling filled the vacant time while everyone awaited the Sunday meal.

Neighbours gathered throughout different parts of the year for plowing, planting or harvesting frolics. Each farm was visited for about a week or so by neighbouring husbands, wives and children, to get a particular phase of work completed in a timely fashion. The men busied themselves doing the field work while the women prepared meals and, perhaps, (if time permitted), did some quilting and, of course, a bit of friendly gossiping. There was no unemployment.

I am now in my early sixties and have had a successful career. My wife and I have lived in Europe and in different parts of Canada where we were blessed enough to enjoy many of the finer things in life.

I don't pine for the "good-ol'-days", but I do reflect on the values of today's society where people are locked into the urban rat-race and driven by hedonistic pleasures. Granted, today's medical and social security systems are much better than that of yesteryear, but the social structure and values of today's society are seriously lacking.

Today, we are driven by the need to own things - trinkets, toys, and other worldly items. Back then, no one had much in the way of material possessions other than the necessities for farming. But everyone had the important things - friends, spiritual comfort, and camaraderie. When the chips were down, someone was there.

I believe we have paid a bill for our urban conveniences.

What do you think?

Gary